The Big Buddy Selection Process

Selecting Big Buddies

When men apply to become a Big Buddy, we begin a process called ‘screening.’ This means we find out as much as we possibly can to verify the man applying is the kind of good guy we need to join our community.

Selection Process

Time and again, Big Buddies tell us they're pleased to be part of a community of men who have been so thoroughly considered.

While Big Buddy embraces the philosophy that most people have an inherently good nature, we’re not prepared to take even the smallest risks with the safety and well-being of children.

Developed over a number of years, this system provides assurance for our entire community:  mothers, sons, mentoring managers, sponsors, funders, donors, and the team here at Big Buddy.

Big Buddy 360° screening process

Big Buddy, how we screen mentors for boys

Here’s how it works:

  • We make sure you can commit to spending 2-3 hours a week with a Little Buddy.
  • We carefully go through the aims of the programme with you to ensure you understand what we need to achieve.
  • If we are both happy to proceed, you’ll fill out a full application form, providing us with personal and professional character references, as well as clearance from your doctor.
  • We’ll do the standard police check which is mandatory for anyone involved with children in a paid or volunteer capacity.
  • You'll meet other men in the screening process at one of our induction and training sessions.
  • The next step is a personal interview and a psychological assessment. These words can strike fear into the hearts of the bravest men, but don’t be put off! Think of it as a personal Warrant of Fitness check-up.
  • Once the results are considered we'll do a final appraisal and let you know if you've got a green light!
  • Next, a ‘match’ is negotiated between yourself and the mother or caregiver of a Little Buddy. At a match meeting facilitated by one of our team, you’ll make your own decisions about whether that match is the ‘right one.’
  • If you approve of the match, you’ll be officially paired with that Little Buddy, start a 3 month trial and begin to meet weekly.
  • You’ll be supported with regular phone calls and any other follow-up you need; if a challenge arises, we’re only a phone call away.
  • We will also connect you to other Big Buddies in your area through regular meetings and Big Buddy outings and events.
Aidan with his dog
Aidan with his dog

Apply now to become a Big Buddy.

If you're interested in becoming a Big Buddy we'd love to know.  The first step is to fill out the form below. Once we have your info we will be in touch.


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