Big Buddy works on the simple philosophy that boys develop more confidence and resilience when they have a positive male role model to learn from.
Welcome to Big Buddy
Some boys don't have a dad in their lives. So Big Buddy finds kind-hearted mentors to spend a little time with them each weekend. We are a free, secular charity that thoroughly screens men from the community, then matches them with a Little Buddy between 7 and 14 years of age. This small commitment makes a huge difference...to both lives!
Find a mentor
Are you mothering or caring for a fatherless boy between 7 and 14 years of age? When fathers are missing from boy's lives, women usually take the full responsibility of bringing sons up alone. They do a courageous job, but boys benefit greatly from time with a man of good character who can actually 'model' maleness.
Become a mentor
Big Buddy has been matching mentors with fatherless boys since the idea began in 1997. Dedicating as little as 2-3 hours a week for at least a year has a huge impact on their confidence, well-being and ability to make good decisions. You could be one of over 800 men making a difference to boys' lives today.
Become a supporter
Big Buddy is incredibly grateful to all the people and businesses who support us in bettering fatherless boys' lives. If you'd like to support this incredibly worthy cause there are many ways to do it. You can become a donor, a sponsor, leave a bequest or simply spread the word to help us find mentors and funders.
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“My son has a Big Buddy and I couldn't speak more highly of this organisation. They are making real differences in the lives of so many young boys. I adore the happiness and confidence that our Big Buddy brings to my son. Definitely worth the reward if you are someone who can give a few hours a week to make a massive difference in some boy’s life.”
LIANNE MORRISON
Why mentoring matters
THERE ARE APPROXIMATELY
48,669 Boys AGED 7-14
living in solo parent families in New Zealand
WE ESTIMATE THAT
8,030 Boys HAVE NO
contact at all with their father
(16.5% of all solo parent families)
THERE ARE APPROXIMATELY
780 Fatherless Boys IN THE
WELLINGTON REGION
and 4,725 boys living in solo parent families
THERE ARE APPROXIMATELY
893 Fatherless Boys IN THE
WAIKATO REGION
and 5,412 boys living in solo parent families
THERE ARE APPROXIMATELY
2,618 Fatherless Boys IN THE
AUCKLAND REGION
and 15,867 boys living in solo parent families
#3lifelessons reveals the simplicity of mentoring
In 2018 Big Buddy picked five of our smashing mentors to showcase the #3lifelessons they aim to leave their Little Buddies with through life. One of Big Buddy's brilliant screening psychotherapists, John Bryant, points out that a lot of these lessons are learnt subconsciously, as part of a 'walking alongside' model of mentoring, rather than a 'fixing' approach. This is exactly what these good men reiterate in a variety of takes on their #3lifelessons.
A huge thanks to Builder and Mentor, Alan Ball; Client Service Manager and Mentor, Peter Dix; Lawn Mowing Contractor and Mentor, Bern Green; Procurement Manager and Mentor, Eugene Lowrie; and Truck Driver and Mentor, Gavin Sheehan.
Look out for these guys on Facebook, Instagram at @bigbuddynz.