Unfortunately, an estimated 8,000 boys live in New Zealand with very little or no ongoing contact with an adult male.

Research shows that the absence of a positive male role model for some of these boys can have a lasting impact on their development and well-being. They can find it difficult to develop a strong sense of self-esteem and identity and can struggle with their emotions. Their ability to keep on track and stay connected to others can become more challenging as they grow.

We know that mums, grandmothers and other female carers do a great job, but sometimes their boys can feel a gap. Big Buddy is here to help bridge that gap by connecting these boys to a positive male role model, a volunteer Big Buddy.

The Ripple Effect

The benefits of these matches ripple far beyond just the boy and his Buddy into their families and wider communities.

Every day we see the positive difference that our volunteer Big Buddies have on the lives of the boys they are matched with. This regular contact and genuine interest in their life provides a real anchor for him as he grows up. Mums and caregivers report that their boys' confidence grows, and they smile more. They are more supportive and respectful of their family members, and they often become good role models for their friends.

The Big Buddies also report a change. They often find themselves happier with a new sense of direction as they help steer a boy’s development and help him grow into a good man. They enjoy their time together and form a strong bond of friendship that often lasts a lifetime.