Big Buddy is embracing change by launching a new mentoring programme designed to support more boys faster.
Older boys’ needs are more complex in today’s society and supporting them is more challenging. Adding to this, there is a shortage of volunteers coming forward, (the volunteer workforce is shrinking and aging according to Te Tari Taiwhenua – Internal Affairs).
To overcome these challenges Big Buddy has launched a new support programme “Big Buddy Group”, designed specifically to support groups of boys aged, 14 to 17. The goal is to more effectively meet the needs of older boys while also making it easier for Big Buddies to step up, as the programme will require a smaller time commitment. This is in addition to their core support program “Big Buddy One-2-One” which matches one Big Buddy to one Little Buddy aged between seven and 14.
Big Buddy Co-Leader Steve Sobota, says Big Buddy has matched 1,200 boys with Big Buddies since inception, but unfortunately, the organisation currently has a waiting list of more than 130 boys due to a lack of volunteers coming forward. Sobota, who has been with Big Buddy for 20 years, has also noticed the changing needs of boys, particularly in the 14 to 17-year age group.
“Our new Group programme is designed for older boys to meet in peer groups with adult mentors and an expert facilitator, in a collaborative and supportive environment over eight weeks. Working in a group also means we need less volunteer mentors.
“Research shows that boys growing up without a male role model are more likely to struggle with anxiety, feelings of abandonment and reduced emotional security. Unfortunately, when boys and young men grow up in a world that lacks positive male role models, their ability to keep on track and stay connected to others becomes more challenging.
“The new Big Buddy Group programme will make it easier for men to volunteer. “We have spoken to many men who want to be involved with Big Buddy but don’t have the extended time for our One-2-One programme (12+ months), the new programme is limited to 8 weeks which is much more manageable for many,” Sobota says. “We know there are many men out there who have a lot to give and want to build positive relationships with youth in a supported environment where they can be of service, have fun, build friendships, and learn new skills. This is a place they can do that.”
Big Buddies new Group programme is designed to improve the boys’ communication skills, help them build stronger interpersonal relationships, and improve wellbeing and confidence – give a sense of belonging and help the boys aspire to educational, vocational or career goals.
The programme will work with groups of 14-17-year-old youth, with weekly sessions, culminating in a 4 day ‘wilderness adventure camp.
Big Buddy will run the programme in Auckland and Wellington delivering three programmes in 2024 through 2025, with a future plan to expand the programme into Tauranga and Hamilton.
Groups will typically comprise 12 youth with four mentors (volunteer adults) and a group facilitator and expert instructors for the outdoor education components. Each course will be conducted on the weekends, during school terms.
The programme will incorporate ‘fun’, challenge, and support, as well as teach practical skills. There will be learning objectives which include social skills – (listening, conflict resolution), teamwork, emotional regulation, leadership, goal setting, and community service.
One of the aims of the programme is to grow a pool of well-screened group mentors who will be available for group programmes but also to be 1 to 1 mentors supporting young men as they integrate the learnings from the course and navigate the next period of their lives.
Big Buddy Chairman, Travis Field summarises:
“Our new programme will help more boys at an impressionable time in their lives, with the help of good male volunteers.”
“We know that with the support of good men, boys grow in confidence and self-worth. They become happier and make better decisions as they grow into young men. All these changes have a positive impact, not just on them, but all those around them. The ripple effect includes the boys’ mums, family, friends and wider community.”
To find out more about our Big Buddy Group Programme please visit the Group section on our website.
Right now there are around 8,000 boys in New Zealand without fathers in their lives. These boys are navigating the challenges of life without the steady hand of a father to guide them.
With your help, Big Buddy can continue to match young boys with good men to offer friendship, support and a good male role model to look up to.
With 130 young boys currently on our waitlist, your support today is needed more than ever.
Your donation will help build confidence and resilience in the lives of boys whose fathers are not around.
